Celebrity Secrets Magazine

Who is Kim Zolciak of  ”The Real Housewives of Atlanta” off camera “Big Papa?   Lee Najjar?”  We don’t know and we don’t care, as long as we’ve got our focus on our devoted husband’s, but we will tell you this: Big Papa is the married man who is sexually unhappy, lives in every county, state and country around the world, who will pay lavishly to be entertained, kept sexually excited, visually stimulated, grasp the freedom to experiment and escape from marital and sexual boredom; with a girlfriend, while keeping his marriage a secret.

With Big Papa’s, it’s usually the same sorry excuse, he is getting a divorce and when it is final we can get married, or “I don’t know how to tell my wife”, because she is the jealous type, she has a heart condition or he will file for a divorce after the holidays. We have heard it all.

Our married Big Papa’s are looking for a woman whom they can control for long-term reasons, that will put the sexual fire back into their lives, the woman who reminds them that they are men and knows how to stroke their ego’s. Big Papa’s are usually happy being a family man, but unhappy in the bedroom. He is missing the excitement and visual stimulation he once knew before, or just after he got married. He wants to feel needed, have fun sex without a timid wife, who will keep him coming back for more. The girlfriend knows without a doubt, that this is an easy catch, like someone once said: ” look at his wife, and look at me”. Yes, this was a well manicured, dressed to kill confident woman, boasting about sexually feeding another woman’s husband.

For those of us wives who know that another woman cannot seduce or break up a sexually exciting marriage, we’ve got our husbands under control. Regardless of our hectic stay-at-home or daily work schedules, we dominate the bedroom. We set out to capture our husband’s in the bedroom, props and all, ( music, sheer lingerie, dance, wigs and bold talk), and keep them rushing home for more. When we make a choice to keep our husband’s sexually in love with us, it is then, that we begin to experience the sexual power and mastery that many girlfriends outside of marriage knowingly control. It is our efforts to sexually please our husband’s that sets off the transformation we women seek within our man.

Kim Zolciak’s “Big Papa”  Lee Najjar,  got his 15 minutes of fame by staying behind the scenes and lavishing Kim with an abundance of bling and an unlimited credit card. Big Papa knew exactly what he was doing, even if he did not expect to generate such a national curiosity. Many of us would love to hate Kim and kick her to the curb, but Kim was really filling in for the rest of us, who are still trying to figure out why our husband’s would consider, or already have, cheated on us. Men are visual and we dare you to try. Kim is not to blame for our inactive marital sexual overconfidence, and damn Kim does look good.